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2 ADHD  //  1 Witch Hunt

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THERAPY 1

Taking-control-of-your-emotions  https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20250226-the-expert-guide-to-taking-control-of-your-emotions

Why-is-adhd-so-surrounded-by-myth https://www.bbc.com/reel/video/p0fnnr0q/why-is-adhd-so-surrounded-by-myth-

Hugs : the-power-of-hugs-for-reducing-inflammation-in-the-body https://www.bbc.com/reel/video/p0kl5x08/the-power-of-hugs-for-reducing-inflammation-in-the-body

2 not 3 shoe salesperson https://www.facebook.com/reel/1885947661929737

https://www.facebook.com/reel/2023056488106184

4 Japanese-principles-to-Lead-a-Good-Life  https://www.bbc.com/reel/video/p0fbmyc4/four-japanese-principles-to-lead-a-good-life

Dads talk to you adolescence 15 mins every day https://www.facebook.c

om/reel/792911586389654

Pers Dev. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5CC65F7D4A1FB7B4

no more feear of rejectino https://www.facebook.com/reel/835928042022887

Why-spending-more-time-in-nature-can-help-you-feel-less-lonely https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20241224-why-spending-more-time-in-nature-can-help-you-feel-less-lonely 


diary of CEO https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=1584511619128506


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Th.2:   ADHD
ADHD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=evathYHc1Fg&list=PLW2h_qfqDjuncql1bqy9awOD4Ud0cybM8

https://www.facebook.com/reel/4003309089890011

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https://www.facebook.com/reel/2699669476873365
https://www.facebook.com/reel/628893779813267
https://www.facebook.com/reel/1305194017180282

blind lady https://youtube.com/shorts/qeXsAtaWMrk?si=nWpbX4KYJbhgh7mq

1st name to cool things down 
https://youtube.com/shorts/uj_5GYE2f5M?si=B9wa1hk5ByB0Dcu8

Video job    gg https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/crr9q2jz7y0o  

 3 ;string violin  https://www.facebook.com/reel/611570168696054  

I woz  homoeless battered ring https://www.facebook.com/reel/1016382580532884
ADHD name or VAST https://www.facebook.com/reel/983923343215604





childhood traumas
https://www.facebook.com/reel/2137573853280656


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Kids interaction
https://www.facebook.com/share/v/NJGnb2sAL9T5nMSF/

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music  can music heal? https://www.facebook.com/share/v/NJGnb2sAL9T5nMSF/


Motivation 
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DAY9ibcPgVS/?igsh=MXcyaDU5ZXFtdzRsOQ%3D%3D


old age https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=122147794598323397&set=gm.2590343064490970&idorvanity=1988002961391653


why womann wear revealing outfits  https://youtube.com/shorts/ThziIqgT9YY?si=G3dq35CltxOR081R
meditation simon sinek https://youtube.com/shorts/V1LyoWE2x-I?si=rWHg4rlK8N5GuIxC

tenis playes only win 51% Federha https://youtube.com/shorts/Dq4LTO05q6w?si=fCfPk5ZeyA4YX4r-


im scared winnie the pooh + piglet https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=1549238919011119&set=gm.1227750601978863&idorvanity=934625401291386


taKing life for granted https://www.facebook.com/reel/876820470690097





questins from theraly https://youtube.com/shorts/d-Z4ccJLazI?si=hNyN4E7s66yU6ieK



ALEEPING 2GEHTER https://www.facebook.com/reel/331769093330982



 

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Time doesn’t move the same in my brain.

And for most of my life, I didn’t have the words for it.
Everything felt urgent… or invisible.
It was either now, or not now.
I’d lose hours inside hyperfocus…
and freeze between unfinished tasks, not because I didn’t care — but because I couldn’t shift.
People called it laziness.
Or disorganization.
Or poor planning.
But what they didn’t see — was how hard I was trying to move through time that didn’t feel like mine.
For me, it wasn’t inconsistency.
It wasn’t being scattered.
It wasn’t being careless.
It was a different rhythm.
One I didn’t choose — but have slowly learned to understand.
So I made this table — not from theory, but from lived experience.
To name what I kept feeling but could never explain out loud.
Because I’ve learned that I’m not dysfunctional —
I’ve just been misread by systems built on linear clocks and external expectations.
My internal clock is emotional.
Rhythmic.
Urgency-activated.
Dopamine-driven.
Deeply intuitive.
And the more I understand my own rhythm,
the more I can stop fighting it…
and start building a life that finally fits.
This is what ADHD time looks like for me.
Maybe it will speak to something in you too.
With rhythm and respect,
Patrycja Marta Jerushalmy




















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In 1930s England, there was a little girl named Gillian Lynne who just couldn’t sit still. She daydreamed, fidgeted, and her mind was always somewhere else. Her grades were poor, and teachers whispered that something was “wrong” with her.

Worried, her mother took her to see a doctor. It seemed another troubling diagnosis was on the way. But this doctor did something different: he turned on the radio, let the music fill the room, and quietly stepped outside with Gillian’s mother, leaving the girl alone.
From the hallway, they watched in silence.
Gillian didn’t sit. As soon as the music began, she started to dance. Her feet floated, her arms moved with the melody. The doctor simply said:
—Your daughter isn’t sick. She’s a dancer.
Gillian was enrolled in dance school, where she finally met children just like her—kids who also couldn’t keep still.
She went on to become a legendary choreographer and director, the creative force behind masterpieces like Cats and The Phantom of the Opera. Gillian Lynne lived to be 92 years old, inspiring millions around the world.

Her story reminds us: being “different” isn’t a flaw—it’s another way to shine. Sometimes, all you need is for someone to see the music inside you. Keep dancing, even when the world is silent.

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BEzo fear https://www.facebook.com/raquel.freitas.75873/posts/pfbid02mESWDNv51bd3bAfBrR13QSkoRX3oJdQxxBrvPAZNsdCv7KsBupw5V6UDaKqZH3x4l?notif_id=1742643264631666&notif_t=notify_me&ref=notif

john cleese dreativity  https://www.facebook.com/reel/669512482274689 

6T therapy hat ADHD https://www.facebook.com/reel/1587285702208925


Avoid-being-a-toxic-friend https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20241129-how-to-avoid-being-a-toxic-friend .


peekaboo

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https://www.facebook.com/reel/743867628339266  ant spider draw circle 



2 ADHD


https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/body-doubling-adhd


BODY DOUBLING 

Body doubling involves doing a task in the presence of another person. This other person may work on the same task or simply be present in the same room. 

People can also body double remotely using video calls.


Some examples of body doubling include:

- working on homework with a parent or caregiver

- writing an essay over a video call with friends

- reading or watching TV while another person fills out paperwork

- sitting with someone while they make a phone call

- working in a quiet open plan office


The body double can be a classmate, friend, family member, co-worker, or another acquaintance. A person might use multiple body doubles to accomplish different tasks or change body doubles for the same task if they cannot stay the whole time. A person might work with their spouse to complete housework, but partner with a variety of different colleagues to complete a work project.


ADHD body doubling is a practice where a person with ADHD does potentially frustrating or boring tasks in the presence of someone else. This other person is the “body double” for the person with ADHD. The body double’s job is to help anchor the person with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) to the present moment, reducing the risk of distraction. This practice emerged in self-help literature as a strategy for ADHD self-management.


Having someone else present may make boring tasks more pleasurable, helping to overcome this. For people with hyperactivity, the calm presence of another person may also help reduce hyperactivity. It may be comforting to some people, or discourage hyperactivity and distraction by modeling focused behavior.


A body double can also provide accountability. The presence of someone else may mean a person with ADHD feels some modest pressure to stay on-task.


For example, if a couple cleans together, a person may be less likely to wander away because they do not want to let their partner down.







Help with challenges

Another way body doubling may help is more direct. If another person is present during a task, the person with ADHD can ask them for help if they come up against a problem.


For example, if two people study together, the student without ADHD may help the person with ADHD understand a difficult concept or explain it to them in a more engaging way.


Is body doubling effective? 

Researchers have not tested the effects of body doubling via any controlled experiments. It is unclear how many people with ADHD find body doubling helpful and to what extent it may improve concentration.


However, as body doubling is a low risk strategy for enhancing focus, it is something people with ADHD can try out for themselves to see if they find it beneficial.


All a person needs is a willing body double, a task they want to do, and some time to do it. It may help the person with ADHD to explain what body doubling is first so that their partner understands what it involves.


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Main benefits of body doubling

There are several potential benefits of body doubling. It may help a person focus in a fairly low effort way, potentially benefitting both parties.


The Center for ADHD Awareness, Canada, which is an advocacy group, also proposes other benefits. Body doubling may:


reduce isolation

reduce anxiety

provide inspiration or encouragement

offer an opportunity for constructive feedback

reduce stigma around ADHD

If the strategy works, body doubling may also promote a sense of mastery and self-efficacy, increasing confidence.


Potential issues of body doubling

Body doubling may not work for everyone with ADHD. Some potential limitations include:


Distraction: The body double themselves may become a distraction during the task or a way for the person with ADHD to distract themselves. The organization Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (CHADD) notes that if the double is a friend, they may socialize instead of working.

Reliance: Using a body double very often could mean a person does not learn how to do things alone.

Incompatibility: Some people may not be good companions for body doubling.

Friends, family, or coworkers who want to support a person with ADHD need to educate themselves about the condition and understand their role if they want to body double.



Alternatives and additional tools

Body doubling is one of many strategies people with ADHD can adopt to help them do tasks that may be frustrating or boring. Other examples include:


Using timers: Some people find it helpful to focus on doing a task for a set amount of time. For example, they may set a timer for 30 minutes in which they will work or do chores. This provides a set end point for the task, which may be motivating.

Using apps: Many apps aid with productivity, some of which are specifically for those with ADHD. They may be able to estimate the duration of tasks, automatically organize tasks into a logical order, break them down into steps, or provide reminders.

Limiting distraction: Turning off one’s phone, limiting social media, or setting a daily time limit for activities that are often distracting may help with staying on-task.

Asking for accommodations: There are many ways schools or workplaces can adapt a person’s work to accommodate ADHD. Learn more about ADHD accommodations for workplaces and schools.

The standard treatments for ADHD includeTrusted Source stimulant medication and behavioral therapy, as well as parental or caregiver support for those caring for children with ADHD. These interventions can complement body doubling.


Summary

Body doubling is a technique that may help some people with ADHD complete difficult tasks, such as cleaning and studying. There is no research on how it works, or how well it works, at the moment. However, many people with ADHD report finding it helpful.


Body doubling may help a person feel calmer, remember to stay on-task, or provide accountability. Body doubles may also be a source of encouragement or help with challenging tasks.


This practice may not work for everyone, though. For some, it may even intensify the symptoms of ADHD by providing a distraction from tasks.


It is important to experiment with different ADHD interventions. Some people also get support from study skills classes, organizational training, therapists, or coaches who specialize in neurodivergence.


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1  Witch Hunt

My daughter came home from school and said,

“Mom, you’re not going to believe what happened in history class today.”
Her teacher told the class they were going to play a game.
He walked around the room and whispered to each kid whether they were a witch or just a regular person. Then he gave the instructions:
“Form the biggest group you can without a witch. If your group has even one, you all fail.”
She said the whole room instantly lit up with suspicion.
Everyone started interrogating each other. Are you a witch? How do we know you’re not lying?
Some kids clung to one big group, but most broke off into smaller, exclusive cliques. They turned away anyone who seemed uncertain, nervous, or gave off even the slightest hint of being guilty.
The energy shifted fast. Suddenly everyone was suspicious of everyone.
Whispers. Finger-pointing. Side-eyes. Trust dissolved in minutes.
Finally, when all the groups were formed, the teacher said,
“Alright, time to find out who fails. Witches, raise your hands.”
And not one hand went up.
The whole class exploded. “Wait! You messed up the game!”
And then the teacher dropped the bomb:
“Did I? Were there any actual witches in Salem, or did everyone just believe what they were told?”
My daughter said the room went dead silent.
That’s when it hit them. No witch was ever needed for the damage to happen. Fear had already done its work. Suspicion alone divided the entire class, turning community into chaos.
And isn’t that exactly what we’re seeing today?
Different words, same playbook.
Instead of “witch,” it’s liberal, conservative, vaxxed, unvaxxed, pro-this, anti-that.
The labels shift, but the tactic is the same.
Get people scared. Get them suspicious. Get them divided.
Then sit back while trust crumbles.
The danger was never the witch.
The danger is the rumor. The suspicion. The fear. The planted lies.
Refuse the whisper. Don’t play the game. Because the second we start hunting “witches,” we’ve already lost.






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